What's wrong with me? -not OT-

[xoskippy182ox]

I have a problem. Ok, dont laugh...but I think I'm in love with Aaron Carter. I know everyone is always like, "I love Aaron Carter!" so you'd think the term "love" is a casual word when you're referring to celebrities, right? Well I mean I think I really am in love with him, and not cause he's famous. I really couldn't give a darn about all that money and fame he's got right now. If he wasn't famous, and if he had no money at all whatsoever, I would feel the same way. And I hate it when people say they like someone just cause of their looks. That's so immature! I mean, yeah the guy's a hottie, I won't deny that, but there's more to a guy than their looks. He has such a down-to-earth personality, he's sweet and I really think we would get along great, cause we have a lot in common. Even the basic stuff--liking the same foods, lol I know it sounds silly, but I can't hide my feelings for him. I really want to go out with him, I've met the guy three times (like that matters...), but seriously I really think I'm in love with him. I know I keep repeating myself, but its true! There are a few problems though: 1. He's a little older than me...try me being 14 (turning 15 in March) and him being 17! Can you see the age gap? 2. He has a girlfriend, and 3. The idea of dating a celebrity is rather more considered a 'dream' or a 'fantasy' and I don't even have a chance with him simply because, well, he's famous. Oh and did I mention, that I also have a boyfriend? Make that number 4. Alrighty well please comment on this, I really think I am starting to lose my mind and become insane! But I really do love him. He once said, "love is different than any kind of feeling you've ever had." You never really get over your first love, and, well, he was mine. And he'll always have a special place in my heart. I just love him so much. :(

<3

[acfan4life]

I don't know if I love aaron like that. I think he is very hot, but i don't know him know him so I can't love him. And yeah if i had the chance to date him, I wouldn't turn it down for anything. But he was the first guy I had my first crush on, so I think i will always like him. :)
but u have to know that there are a lot of great guys out there who are like aaron or even better. Just keep telling ur self that becuase u have less then 0.025 chance with him. everybody does. :(

[xoskippy182ox]

Exactly. How many girls can say they love Aaron "like that"? My guess is not many. You're right, though, we all have a VERY slim to none chance of ever being with him. So yeah, it sucks.

[Dana4Nick]

I think that to really BE in love with someone you have to know them, not just have met them. Maybe you have a lot of things in common with Aaron, but you don't know ALL about him like you think you do. Reality can be quite different. All the things you described are really normal, but do try to find those good points about your own boyfriend too...chances are, he's a very nice guy, AND you have a better chance of it lasting LOL (Aaron is known to have extremely short term relationships!)
Seriously, enjoy being in love with Aaron...but don't let it make you unhappy, cause then, what use would it be?
Didn't want to sound like your Mom here, just offering an opinion!
I used to be in love with his big brother too....didn't work out though...lmao he ate too much spicy food!
LOL j/k

D.x

[xoskippy182ox]

My boyfriend doesnt exactly live right around the corner from me. In fact, we've never even met! I only know him through my friend Ariana. Her cousin is friends with him, and they met once and exchanged screennames. She just happened to tell him about me cause we were both 'single and looking' and so he IMed her when she was over my house. Good thing she went online! We started talking and stuff, and we both liked eachother so of course when he asked me out I said yes. We've been going out for almost a month, but we've never met and don't know what the other person looks like. To be honest with ya, I'm thinking of maybe breaking it off with him. It's really not worth it...I dont know what I'm gonna do. And if I do break it off, its not cause I'm in love with Aaron, its just cause we dont really have any chemistry. So yeah =/.

[BSBfanatic935]

I doubt you're in love with Aaron... you don't even know him. Yeah you've met him, but he could be so different in reality. I'm not saying he is, he probably is a really cool guy, he seemed cool when I met him a couple times. The point is, you need to know him on more of a personal level... I dunno. I think you're infatuated with him, or just have a crush. If you were in love, you wouldn't have to just think you were, you would know it

[nickscdngirl]

you are infatuated with something that u want

[xoskippy182ox]

I broke up with my boyfriend just now. I just couldn't take it anymore. It was too hard. I'm definitely not ready for that kinda relationship right now and I don't wanna rush into anything too soon. But anyway, I was reading the replies on here and I really appreciate everyone (yeah, only like 3 people lol) who took the time to sit back and read about my boring life story (I'm over-exagerating, obviously) and even reply to it. So thanks. Okay, bye! :D

[aaron_carter_fan]

I have a problem. Ok, dont laugh...but I think I'm in love with Aaron Carter. I know everyone is always like, "I love Aaron Carter!" so you'd think the term "love" is a casual word when you're referring to celebrities, right? Well I mean I think I really am in love with him, and not cause he's famous. I really couldn't give a darn about all that money and fame he's got right now. If he wasn't famous, and if he had no money at all whatsoever, I would feel the same way. And I hate it when people say they like someone just cause of their looks. That's so immature! I mean, yeah the guy's a hottie, I won't deny that, but there's more to a guy than their looks. He has such a down-to-earth personality, he's sweet and I really think we would get along great, cause we have a lot in common. Even the basic stuff--liking the same foods, lol I know it sounds silly, but I can't hide my feelings for him. I really want to go out with him, I've met the guy three times (like that matters...), but seriously I really think I'm in love with him. I know I keep repeating myself, but its true! There are a few problems though: 1. He's a little older than me...try me being 14 (turning 15 in March) and him being 17! Can you see the age gap? 2. He has a girlfriend, and 3. The idea of dating a celebrity is rather more considered a 'dream' or a 'fantasy' and I don't even have a chance with him simply because, well, he's famous. Oh and did I mention, that I also have a boyfriend? Make that number 4. Alrighty well please comment on this, I really think I am starting to lose my mind and become insane! But I really do love him. He once said, "love is different than any kind of feeling you've ever had." You never really get over your first love, and, well, he was mine. And he'll always have a special place in my heart. I just love him so much. :(

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you know what i feel like that to. and i'm not just some freaky crazy fan that loves him either, like i really love him. and i wouldn't laugh about what you said because i feel like that to. and i don't know why..well i do but yea it's kinda weird me thinking this! lol :)

[FckCelebrities]

umm no comment!

[ladyluna]

Dont' worry at all. You are so young and you'll how in time you'll get over it. It never happened to me with Aaron but I was thought I was totally in love with Nick when I was 14-15 (I'm almost 21 now). When I knew of Mandy (his girlfriend back then)well, you can't say it wasn't a pretty picture the one you got of me. I cried, screamed and I was really really sad. You get the picture, right? LOL As time goes by, you'll get older and you'll realize that your feelings for aaron don't run that deep, that you feel a connection with him somehow, that you are agreat fan but that you aren't in love with him. Maybe a crush, a big one for that matter? Yes, probably but not real love IMO. Trust me, no one stays forever like that. Time, experiences and perspective will teach you how to clear up your feelings.

[aaron_carter_fan]

Dont' worry at all. You are so young and you'll how in time you'll get over it. It never happened to me with Aaron but I was thought I was totally in love with Nick when I was 14-15 (I'm almost 21 now). When I knew of Mandy (his girlfriend back then)well, you can't say it wasn't a pretty picture the one you got of me. I cried, screamed and I was really really sad. You get the picture, right? LOL As time goes by, you'll get older and you'll realize that your feelings for aaron don't run that deep, that you feel a connection with him somehow, that you are agreat fan but that you aren't in love with him. Maybe a crush, a big one for that matter? Yes, probably but not real love IMO. Trust me, no one stays forever like that. Time, experiences and perspective will teach you how to clear up your feelings.

thanks for posting!! maybe my feelings for aaron will go down a bit as i get older but not a lot, i will always love him forever.

[ladyluna]

thanks for posting!! maybe my feelings for aaron will go down a bit as i get older but not a lot, i will always love him forever.


You are welcome and remember have fun and take it easy! :biggrin:

[aaron_carter_fan]

You are welcome and remember have fun and take it easy! :biggrin:
thanks! it's weird i feel like i'm waiting to be with aaron, and it's never going to happen! lol

[aaron_rocks_33]

im a bit like that lol. but its frustrating tho cuz he isnt very popular here in uk. there is neva anythin on bout him except the repeats of lizzie mcguire episodes, where he was in. a lot of ppl on here hav met him and i rely wana lol

[xoskippy182ox]

I know I dont love him as a 'crush'. I remember when I liked his brother. Totally different scenario. I was very young, and didn't know what love was. Nick was more of a crush, Aaron is the real thing. You know when you have that 'gut feeling' inside? Well I have a feeling that I really do love Aaron, and not just the way you think I do, ladyluna. But thanks for commenting everyone! :D

[infamousJA]

lmfao.

i feel like i've said this alot on this board, you cant love someone you don't know. and your probably basing what you have "in common" with him on facts that he said in interviews, magazines, books, etc from when he was younger.... he's probably changed so much since then and not everything you read is even true. you met him 3 times but like, you can't love someone after 3 times of "hi can i have your autograph how are you blah blah can we get a picture whats up ok bye. " and when you said that you were young then and didnt know what love was... your still young and you still DONT know what love is because you can't honestly love someone based on what you've said. that just doesnt work... its infatuation and your not the first to say something like this on here, lol... but yeah you're definitely not in love... i don't know if alot of people feel like you or what i definitely think its a little weird but um, thats just my opinion...

[carter_kid]

i understand you alot. when i first heard about aaron and got into him.i was like 11/12 and i totally thought i was in love with him. i was for like 2 years. but now im not really into him.huge fan and everything.but i dnt "love" him. mind you mate,its all part of growing up,ppl think there in love with a celebrity and its natural. mind you,try to keep ur mind on something else. because when u think ur love with someone u kno ur not gonna get it can really get u down. also a little note: if ANYONE tells u ur stupid or a loser for thinking u love Aaron Carter. Tell them where to get off.Because I totally know where ur coming from. But now Im 14 i've gotta over it and im much happy. Because wanting something which u kno aint gonna happen,does get u down alot.

[infamousJA]

umm no comment!
lolol... :laugh:

[nickscdngirl]

I remember watching a Jesse McCartney interview & he was talking about fans who come up to him and say there in love with him and stuff like that and he said "it's not the same kinda love when u have a boyfriend or girlfriend . its the kinda love thats an obbsession" something u want and wish u could have ...

cos seriously u cant be in love with aaron carter cos he's only a person u see on tv and songs and pictures.. It's something u wish u had in real life...

[BeMiCon88]

i think a lot of fans feel this ways thats why we are so supportive lol. I know how you feel and im 16 hehe so don't feel alone.

[ACismylife4eva]

lmfao.

i feel like i've said this alot on this board, you cant love someone you don't know. and your probably basing what you have "in common" with him on facts that he said in interviews, magazines, books, etc from when he was younger.... he's probably changed so much since then and not everything you read is even true. you met him 3 times but like, you can't love someone after 3 times of "hi can i have your autograph how are you blah blah can we get a picture whats up ok bye. " and when you said that you were young then and didnt know what love was... your still young and you still DONT know what love is because you can't honestly love someone based on what you've said. that just doesnt work... its infatuation and your not the first to say something like this on here, lol... but yeah you're definitely not in love... i don't know if alot of people feel like you or what i definitely think its a little weird but um, thats just my opinion...


i do not htink you needed to laugh at her and say that it is weird........ i feel the same way as her and so do a bunch of other people........ i feel the same way as her and i have never met Aaron Carter....... maybe if you werent such a mean person you would know what love feels like!!!!!!!!

[ACismylife4eva]

umm no comment!

youre are rude!!!!! if you did not have anything to say then what was the point of leaving a comment to say no comment other then to be mean?????????? you are stupid!!!!!

[xoskippy182ox]

I'm not 'obsessed' with him. I shouldve known everyone would be like this. So stupid. no one understands. So why dont you back off?! God...

[BsBmIrAcLeZ]

Honestly I don't think you can say you are in love till you know the real Aaron. You may have met him a few times but he may act different when fans are around and be a totally different person when he is with his friends. He says things in interviews and we all know the 'public Aaron' but we don't know the private one! Seriously I think every young teen thinks they are 'in love' with their celeb crush at one point or another. When I was 13 I thought I was in love with Brian Littrell but you get older, realize they are completely different than what you thought and see that you were just infatuated with his voice, looks, persona etc. Plus right now Aaron is a player! Thats MY honest opinion. And the fact that you had a boyfriend online w/o meeting him first is kinda odd too (similar to the Aaron situation). No offense!! I just think you want someone to talk to or feel close to that has something in common with you but my advice is...meet them, get to know the real person and THEN decide if you love them.

[Por]

I think I love hi min that way too but who really know it is. I've never meet him or don't knwo him really, don't even talk to him or know him personally.The point is how many of us have a chance just 10 sec to being with him. And if I meet him or you meet him and be friend with him you can't say that you will feel like this time. WHo can say it out. Not thing sure until it happen.
ANYWAY THAT's JUST MY OPINION.

Be trust on Aaron and stay on his side. Whatever happen I always support him.

[carter_kid]

yo guys.sure we have all opinons.but we gotta respect them.u ppl who say its obbession or stupid.let em do what they gotta do.if we respect u,u gotta respect those ppl.it aint fair.peeps i kno where ur coming from,cause i kno it feels like love.and i kno it hurts when u dnt meet him. but keep ur head up guys.

[SapphireTears]

thanks! it's weird i feel like i'm waiting to be with aaron, and it's never going to happen! lol
You guyz should NEVER feel stupid for thinking (or knowing) that you're in love witha celeb. Don't listen to what other ppl say, just follow ur hearts. I, for one, don't feel that way about Aaron like I said to Aaron_Carter_Fan before, "I love him but I'm not in love with him" I will always support AC I've liked him dince fourth grade and nothin' will ever make me not support him (unless he hurt someone I love which I know he'd NEVER do) but anyway back to my point (cuz I do have one lol) you guyz shouldn't feel bad because you love someone a lot, you should feel great because that person makes you feel great, it doesn't make you weird or obsessive. Hope I helped at least a little!!!
*~Jamie~*

[xoskippy182ox]

:) thanks.

[aaron_carter_fan]

You guyz should NEVER feel stupid for thinking (or knowing) that you're in love witha celeb. Don't listen to what other ppl say, just follow ur hearts. I, for one, don't feel that way about Aaron like I said to Aaron_Carter_Fan before, "I love him but I'm not in love with him" I will always support AC I've liked him dince fourth grade and nothin' will ever make me not support him (unless he hurt someone I love which I know he'd NEVER do) but anyway back to my point (cuz I do have one lol) you guyz shouldn't feel bad because you love someone a lot, you should feel great because that person makes you feel great, it doesn't make you weird or obsessive. Hope I helped at least a little!!!
*~Jamie~*
awe! thanks so much! ur great! :D