OT: Opinions..

[nycwanabee]

OKAY, so. There's this guy, Steve. He started dating this girl named Robbie in June.... I kind of had a thing for him the entire summer, and vice versa. We would constantly be texting each other and he would call me and hang out with me all the time but she didn't mind because well, she didn't know we liked each other. She left for NYU, he stayed here in Illinois so obviously distance was going to break them up.. the day he broke up with her is the night we started going out. He wanted to keep us on the "DL" for awhile because he said he didn't want to hurt her and make it seem obvious that he left her for me, so whatever - I agreed. Well, I didn't do such a great job on keeping it on the DL because I was happy with him and I wanted the whole world to know....she found out, he lied to her and said it wasn't true. Steve and I ended up breaking up 2 weeks ago and he said he "Doesn't know what he wants" and wants to concentrate on football, feels tied down, etc. I wanted to tell Robbie (his ex) the truth but he said not to, and he didn't so I just kept my mouth shut. She was very upset with me because she thought I made up the rumour that she had heard...but the rumor was true. I'm assuring her that it wasn't but I feel awful. Now I find out that he's saying the exact same things to her as he is to me.. things such as "If I ever decide I want a girlfriend again I definatly want it to be you.." PLAYER, but still... I have feelings for him and she's like absolutely in love with him.. so should I end the player of his games and let her know what's going on.. or just let it be. I just don't want to ruin things with him...I don't know why, but I just don't..

If you read all that, I thank you.

[OcBaybee]

Wow in a way your story sounds like mine. Except its different. I don't know what to tell you because I'm sorta in the same boat. There is this guy name Sean. We work together, and now go to the same college. Well this summer i started to like him, and well at one party we were at we hooked up (we didn't have sex), and then we were texting each other NON-STOP everyday. And hung out like 3 more times that week and kept making out when we saw each other ect.. and then after a week of that we started to date. Well like 3 days after our 1 month thing, he tells me his ex girlfriend is talking to him and he is confused and doesn't know what he wants to do. So he broke up with me, and said he just wanted to be friends. Which really shocked me because 4 days before that he was telling me how much he liked me and he was glad he was with me. So I was hurt. Turns out the girl was Dana who worked with us. So there was some drama at work. I got over it and decided to say screw the drama and be nice to her and him. I started being nice to her and then I asked someone else at work if i should approach sean and befriend him again or whatever. And they told me that he wanted to talk to me but he was scared that i would bitch him out or something. So I ended up talking to him and he appologized like woah, and said he never ment to hurt me. I told him id forgive him this time, and that least he had the respect to break up with me and not cheat on me. Then he asked to be my friend again so I said we could. We started to text a little. But he wasnt allowed to hang out with me because Dana didn't want him to. Well everyone at work started to hate on her, and she ended up quiting. lol Once she quit the flirting at work between me and him started up a lot (he started to throw french fries and stuff at me again, smart comments, being super nice again.. just like he did when we dated and before we did). After two weeks she quit they started to have problems. And then last week we started to text a lot like woah. People at work say he regrets breaking up with me. Well this past week he broke up with dana, and now the flirting has begun even worse. And now he is gonna be coming over my house with some people thursday since im having a little get together because the rents are gone out of town. So we will see how things go, because me and him have been talking all week about hangin out again and such..

so im sorta in same boat as you. i dont know what the hell to do. Im not gonna lie, i'd take him back. I miss him. I miss the feeling i felt when i was with him. I felt good about myself for once, which doesn't happen very often lol. Feel free to PM or IM me :)

[Ocean_Serenity]

this is a tough one. *Calls in a professional), Nah all I can really say is well you have decide what kind of a guy he is . Now idf hes abd guy then he not a watse of yours or that other girls time. If he really wants to be with you like hes says. Then he will prve it, But his gf got to realize thats a long ditsnace relationship and it might not work oput so she should try to see if it works if it doesn't, she should look for soemone else. Hope I helped...

[frackzbrozgal]

Wow in a way your story sounds like mine. Except its different.
:funny: :funny: :funny:
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<===========im a loser, i know))

[OcBaybee]

mol i dont get what your trying to say.. i dont think my or her situation is funny.

[nycwanabee]

Wow, your situation does sound a lot like mine... I think I'm going to tell her

[OcBaybee]

it does in a weird way doesnt it? well i hope things work out for the best, just go with your instinct. And what your heart wants you to do.

[Oakvillebabe]

Wow, your situation does sound a lot like mine... I think I'm going to tell her
This may seem really off topic and odd but do you have a relative name Jessica and goes to Oakville High School

[frackzbrozgal]

mol i dont get what your trying to say.. i dont think my or her situation is funny.
cuz u said 'its like mine, only diffrent' (im amused easily)

[OcBaybee]

ohh i get it. lol

[BsbChick03Ac]

sound bout like Aaron (JK) oka um.. Well he's kinda wrong for what he did but if ya really care than just tell her the truth and well he'll just have to learn.. Not much help but... Oh well... Hope things work out...

[nycwanabee]

Heres the update: I told her, she understood, said she was done with him compleltey. He called me and said the meanest things to me ever. Something along the lines of "I meant what I said to Robbie, but never what I said to you, you were my rebound, I used you.. I never had feelings for you" Yeah, so you can imagine. But you know what.. I'm better than that.. so whatever - he's just not worth my time .. She said to not take it personal.. just that he;s only saying it to make me feel bad because he felt bad.. but whatever...I'm so over it

[OcBaybee]

Heres the update: I told her, she understood, said she was done with him compleltey. He called me and said the meanest things to me ever. Something along the lines of "I meant what I said to Robbie, but never what I said to you, you were my rebound, I used you.. I never had feelings for you" Yeah, so you can imagine. But you know what.. I'm better than that.. so whatever - he's just not worth my time .. She said to not take it personal.. just that he;s only saying it to make me feel bad because he felt bad.. but whatever...I'm so over it


wow wtf.. loser. Yeah def forget about him. It makes me think was dana sean's rebound? And he really means what he says to me? Wow. Oh well. Seriously you can do better than that. <3