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ladyluna

Sep 25th, 2006, 08:56 AM

You are the one who is too predictible. You are talking about them all being alcoholics yet the only one who gets drunk is the one "who stays true to herself"? Please. You cut her some slack because she is the one defending Jane. They all love her but I'd be bitter and sad as all hell if I was Jane or Bob's daughter as well. Can't blame the rest of their children for not knowing quite sure what to do anymore.

ac_fan

Sep 25th, 2006, 09:57 AM

suzannema2005

Sep 25th, 2006, 10:35 AM

it is no way predictable, i was expecting to be like all the other reality shows but it was def not. i didnt realise all the pain they still carry. i would hate to janes daughter, i woiuld be so upset if my mom used me for money like she did.

yeah me too, i didnt realise how bitter Nick was.
I cant believe Nick gave her $5000 and she didnt say 'thanks'

Aaron is a doll!..he has a great heart.

ashangel210

Sep 25th, 2006, 11:08 AM

I'm pretty sure it wasn't any of the kids who were pulled over for a DUI two weeks ago. Thanks.

CamoBratDragon

Sep 25th, 2006, 11:24 AM

I'm pretty sure it wasn't any of the kids who were pulled over for a DUI two weeks ago. Thanks.

*reps* thats exactly what I was thinking.

jenn

Sep 25th, 2006, 11:44 AM

at frist I thougt Nick was bitter and heartless and then when I found out about the money and all that I lost my opinion on it:susp2:

ac_fan

Sep 25th, 2006, 12:11 PM

i am also quite surprised at ac, cuz i thought he would be a lot more louder. he is loud but not as loud and crazy as i expected. mind you this is only the first ep.

suzannema2005

Sep 25th, 2006, 12:37 PM

yeah aaron has tamed down!

jenn

Sep 25th, 2006, 12:59 PM

yeah aaron has tamed down!
do u mean it's bad or good thing?

BabyG

Sep 25th, 2006, 03:47 PM

did you notice AC dropped the F-bomb twice and it wasn't bleeped out? The first time you could barely hear it but the second time you could. lol

CamoBratDragon

Sep 25th, 2006, 04:03 PM

did you notice AC dropped the F-bomb twice and it wasn't bleeped out? The first time you could barely hear it but the second time you could. lol

i'll have to look out for that, lol. i'm probably so used to hearing that word i didn't even notice.

_muffin_1989_

Sep 25th, 2006, 04:43 PM

Hey I was watching the fight scene with AC and Nick. Why did Nick bring up Paris Hilton in the fight?

ashangel210

Sep 25th, 2006, 04:45 PM

i am also quite surprised at ac, cuz i thought he would be a lot more louder. he is loud but not as loud and crazy as i expected. mind you this is only the first ep.

LMAO at his spurts of thugness. It comes and goes. Too funny.:funny: He's a real character. But when he blew up at Nick, omg.....wow:blueeek: That was intense. I thought someone was gonna end up in ER for sure.

ashangel210

Sep 25th, 2006, 04:46 PM

Hey I was watching the fight scene with AC and Nick. Why did Nick bring up Paris Hilton in the fight?

Because when one is fighting with somebody like that, one tends to bring up irrelevant, unimportant info from the past. I speak from experience.

blitze1471

Sep 25th, 2006, 06:31 PM

Dude, my family's around the same as theirs. I'm the youngest, and bitterest kid my parents have to deal w/ for a couple more years..lol. so u really can't blame nick or n e of them for being bitter. that's a natural reaction to the hell some people are put through. so dont judge.

suzanne

Sep 26th, 2006, 12:19 AM

BJ did look like a alcoholic in the 1st eppisode. I don't why on the website why any words were bleeped out. I understand why for TV but not the internet.

ashangel210

Sep 26th, 2006, 08:22 AM

BJ did look like a alcoholic in the 1st eppisode. I don't why on the website why any words were bleeped out. I understand why for TV but not the internet.

Yeah I agree. I'm a bit concerned about BJ. *hugs BJ*

ldosmon

Sep 26th, 2006, 10:08 AM

Yeah I agree. I'm a bit concerned about BJ. *hugs BJ*

Unlike the others, BJ doesn't hide the fact that she drinks more than she should. Misery has a way of creeping up on those who party and drink excessively, especially those who pretend there isn't a problem or simply shrug it off. Thus the reality show. Not only BJ but everyone in that family needs help. All the fingerpointings at Jane won't accomplish anything. Drama-hungry fans and aiming-for-big-bucks producers do NOT want to see the family healed. Failure to get help or accepting the fact that their OWN choices led to their downfall, misery will live on. They as a family are never going to heal the way they are continuing to treat their mother.

suzannema2005

Sep 26th, 2006, 10:59 AM

you seem like you dont want to the family to be happy

ashangel210

Sep 26th, 2006, 12:10 PM

Unlike the others, BJ doesn't hide the fact that she drinks more than she should. Misery has a way of creeping up on those who party and drink excessively, especially those who pretend there isn't a problem or simply shrug it off. Thus the reality show. Not only BJ but everyone in that family needs help. All the fingerpointings at Jane won't accomplish anything. Drama-hungry fans and aiming-for-big-bucks producers do NOT want to see the family healed. Failure to get help or accepting the fact that their OWN choices led to their downfall, misery will live on. They as a family are never going to heal the way they are continuing to treat their mother.

When I see everyone else in the house chugging champagne like it's going out of style, then I'll worry. There was only one drunk in that house. It was BJ.

End of the Road

Sep 26th, 2006, 01:43 PM

All the fingerpointings at Jane won't accomplish anything. Drama-hungry fans and aiming-for-big-bucks producers do NOT want to see the family healed. Failure to get help or accepting the fact that their OWN choices led to their downfall, misery will live on. They as a family are never going to heal the way they are continuing to treat their mother.

Wow, and you have time to come on LD and post after your job as an amateur psychiatrist!

You don't think it messes kids up to be supporting their mother both emotionally and financially who continues to choose NOT to be a responsible person? Maybe you were lucky enough to live in a non-dysfunctional family but I wouldn't judge how screwed up the Carter kids are unless you've walked a mile in their shoes.

And IMHO, if Jane was my mother, in order to heal myself, I would just have to cut her out of my life. Sad, right?

Sam

Sep 26th, 2006, 09:01 PM

ok so my computers whack and doesnt have sound so i have yet to see the episode. but i know from personal experience, when people have gone through hell over and over, like they have, people tend to turn to alcohol and drugs to get their mind off of things. can someone explain to me why everyones say BJ is an alcoholic?? and PLEASEEE dont say its being the camera caught her drunk once. cause i take that word very seriously. but yeah if there is a legitimate reason for saying that, then i appologize. so, can someone please clue me in. lol

suzanne

Sep 27th, 2006, 12:47 AM

ldosmon

Sep 27th, 2006, 06:35 AM

When I see everyone else in the house chugging champagne like it's going out of style, then I'll worry.

Not gonna see that happening during filming.

ladyluna

Sep 27th, 2006, 06:42 AM

Not gonna see that happening during filming.

Then, what the hell are you trying to prove to us without any proof? Whether they have problems or not, I don't know or more like I don't know the extend but it takes a lot to call them whatever when you are defending their mother who practically destroyed their lifes to the point they can't even stand her. Furthermore, you are calling them alcoholics when their mother was freaking arrested with DUI charges a while back. WTF?

ldosmon

Sep 27th, 2006, 06:51 AM

... but i know from personal experience, when people have gone through hell over and over, like they have, people tend to turn to alcohol and drugs to get their mind off of things.
People turn to alcohol and drugs for other reasons too. How about plain stupidity for one? Oftentimes the hell they go thru they brought upon themselves from their own choices, things they made up and fantasied about. For them, misery stares at them like none other.

thenextstarlette

Sep 27th, 2006, 07:07 AM

ThEY AdMiT To BeInG AlCoHolIcs.... AnGel SaysWhY dO pEOple ThINK Im A BitCH???? BeCauSe YoU aND YoUr StUpId MySpAcE FrRiEndS ArE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ladyluna

Sep 27th, 2006, 07:22 AM

ThEY AdMiT To BeInG AlCoHolIcs.... AnGel SaysWhY dO pEOple ThINK Im A BitCH???? BeCauSe YoU aND YoUr StUpId MySpAcE FrRiEndS ArE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Are you still bitter that they don't want to be your friend? My god girl, get over it and while you are at it, learn to type please. It takes longer to write like this and it makes you look even worse.

ladyluna

Sep 27th, 2006, 07:24 AM

ldosmon

Sep 27th, 2006, 07:34 AM

Then, what the hell are you trying to prove to us without any proof? Whether they have problems or not, I don't know or more like I don't know the extend but it takes a lot to call them whatever when you are defending their mother who practically destroyed their lifes to the point they can't even stand her. Furthermore, you are calling them alcoholics when their mother was freaking arrested with DUI charges a while back. WTF?

Lady, I can surmise it wouldn't have come down to a reality show if even ONE of them took the responsibility bull by the horn for own choices, sought real help akin to what AJ did, and turned around. Sadly, they're still in denial. If it takes a reality show to get even ONE to realize this and do something about it, then it WILL be well worth it. The big question is would ANY one or more of them wish to rather than blame mom for their misery?

ldosmon

Sep 27th, 2006, 08:07 AM

you seem like you dont want to the family to be happyIt's not up to me but up to them if they wish to lead happier lives. I have hinted in several of my posts how they could go about finding it. It won't be easy for sure as it will require swallowing some false pride and this very type of pride is an enemy to happiness and PROMOTES misery. Their choice: happiness or continuing misery

thenextstarlette

Sep 27th, 2006, 11:19 AM

No Im Not Bitter They Are Bitches

Sam

Sep 27th, 2006, 01:40 PM

A alcoholic doesn't need you to defend her or make excusses for her.

Lots of kids have bad parent and that is NOT a exuse and people making excuses is what makes addicts not realize that they need help.

im not making excuses. im just saying that people tend to throw around the word alcoholic like its nothing, you dont realize how bad it is until its effected your life, and unfortunately i know all too well. so im just hoping people arent throwing the word around like its nothing and if theyre saying she is an alcoholic, then theres a legit reason.

Sam

Sep 27th, 2006, 01:47 PM

People turn to alcohol and drugs for other reasons too. How about plain stupidity for one? Oftentimes the hell they go thru they brought upon themselves from their own choices, things they made up and fantasied about. For them, misery stares at them like none other.

yeah i know, i was just saying one reason. and i disagree completely because the hell people go through, especially when youre growing up (i dont mean alcohol and drugs, i mean other issues) is not your fault by any means. and no stupidity isnt a reason, a lot of times people have been through too much and dont know what else to do and if they have easy access to drugs and alcohol, theyre gonna use it.

ladyluna

Sep 28th, 2006, 02:30 AM

Lady, I can surmise it wouldn't have come down to a reality show if even ONE of them took the responsibility bull by the horn for own choices, sought real help akin to what AJ did, and turned around. Sadly, they're still in denial. If it takes a reality show to get even ONE to realize this and do something about it, then it WILL be well worth it. The big question is would ANY one or more of them wish to rather than blame mom for their misery?
You keep saying that this is all their fault because of their choices. They will pay for their bad choices soon enough. But who the hell is gonna heal the damage that their parents have caused them? WHO? Half of the misery they are in it's their mom's fault. Those kids were children one day and they did what they mother told them to do. She didn't know better but she should have because she was the adult. Now, as adults they have to deal with what both their parents did to them while Jane chooses to be drive drunk and ask for money every five minutes and you wonder why they are bitter? HELLO!

ladyluna

Sep 28th, 2006, 02:31 AM

No Im Not Bitter They Are Bitches

You do act bitter and jealous. If they weren't good to you, forget about it and let it go. It's not gonna change.

ladyluna

Sep 28th, 2006, 02:35 AM

Most of the time, someone who is complety happy, especially a child or a young person doesn't get addicted to something just because they are stupid. Drug addiction usually has to do with very deep and serious problems cause by something or someone that shouldn't be disregarded. No one pushes you to take drugs and no one should take the blame it doesn't have anything to do with it "being a choice made by a stupid person". If any of the Carter kids took or takes drugs is not because they are a bunch of stupid, happy campers. TRUST ME.