Oh Britney

[Katlin]

It's a sad sad day when you make Kfed look like the best option.

[lost_n_justin's_smile]

Agreed. I hope Britney gets help, and I hope those babies get some stability in their lives.

[Sunfire]

I can't believe that K-Fed is the good parent. :susp2:

[princessKAT]

neither can I!!!!!!!!!!!! I feel kinda bad for her...I fear this is just more turmoil and she may try to hurt herself :bluesad:

[Katlin]

Seriously. Either this will be the wake up call that will turn her around or this will be the last hit to complete her downward spiral. Sadly, I fear it's the last.

[SparkleHugs]

I think with the only responsibility she had in her life gone, she will only get worse from here. She will bottom out big time eventually. Hopefully she doesn't bottom out John Belushi style

[HipHopChristian]

I'm still trying to figure out where she went wrong... it's like one day she just randomly went weird.

[SparkleHugs]

That would be the day she broke up with Justin.

or maybe the day she got married for 54 hours in Vegas.

[pinky]

I've thought the first for quite a while now. She seems to have been in a downward spiral ever since then.

Note: I don't think Justin is completely pure and innocent. It's just that when they broke up, he moved on in a positive way, she didn't.

[SparkleHugs]

I love that you have to get in a Justin dig, can't have any compliemnts to the type of person he is around here. He just knew how to work through the heartbreak (note the rude video and song that became so successful because of it). I actutally have no idea who broke up with whom or for what reasons.

I feel sorry for her. I hope she can get her life on track soon, sadly I think it will be some time before she will have any kind of respect from anyone.

[HipHopChristian]

Yeah, I guess the married for 54 hours thing was the beginning of it. Although, that didn't have to be the beginning. I want to know what caused her to do all this.

... and it has nothing to do with Justin. If she felt Justin did anything wrong (i.e. CMAR), then she should have done something to fight back (media wise). She had a couple songs on her CD at the time that could have been about Justin, that she could have released.

[SparkleHugs]

Honestly, the classiest thing for her to do in response for CMAR is absolutely nothing. I think it was her breakup wtih Justin most girls cannot deal with losing their first love, nearly every girl I know who has broken up with their first love went on to go through a period of absolute whoredom. It was also near the time that bubble gum pop was clearly done and reguardless of any attempt she may have made to change her sound she will always be associated with it. She has not made the transition well the way Justin has.

Also throw in just any kind of lack of childhood that most of us get, you cant deal with crap and you act out. one bad decision leads to another, leads to another and now I think the girl is so completely lost she wouldnt know a good decision if it hit her in the face. Plus you add the fact she has started using drugs and drinking too much into the mix and you end up with one big basketcase and that's what Britney is right now.

So yes, its incorrect to say its all Justin (and while I think it's Justin, its her inability to deal...not his fault at all) But I think her issues definitely root back to that and began at that time in her life.

[HipHopChristian]

Ok, something in her past... I do agree with that. But I don't know what. A tad bit of Justin, MAYBE... but that's not his fault either.

[SparkleHugs]

Yes, of course it isnt his fault. The girl just cant deal so it's really all her fault. I don't blame anyone but Britney in all of this.

What I really dont get is what the hell happened, she filed for divoce, went on Letterman, looked all good and happy and it was like YAY normal brintey back!! and then BAM she goes out partying with Paris and Lindsay and no more good Britney. Maybe that is when the drugs began and crap really hit the fan.

[pinky]

Sparks, I didn't mean that as a dig at Justin at all. I just didn't want anyone to think I believe he wasn't partying. Brit's use of recreational drugs and alcohol didn't start after they broke up. It's not that they were completely straight and sober all the time, then they broke up and she went all to hell.

I agree with you that she wasn't able to deal with their breakup, and that started her on the path she's been on since then. I also think that her marriage to Jason Alexander might have been her (obviously impaired) way of trying to show Justin that she could move on, except that she really couldn't and it blew up in her face.

[SparkleHugs]

Oh he certainly was, he has even admited to drug use, which I do not advocate, but he also seems to have been able to control himself. Whereas Britney cannot. I feel sorry for her, but everything is 100% her fault. Hopefully she will soon realize that. I also think it is sad that the TVguide channel totally had an hour special dedicated to discussing her breakdown with top doctors, attorneys, life coaches etc. Absolutely freakin ridiculous.